One of my short-comings (or maybe it's an advantage sometimes) is I like to fight for what I think it's right. I don't mind to argue or discuss and I don't mind to be challenged, as I think it's a process of getting mutual understanding.

And these days I have argued with a number of ppl, some of them are who I never argue with before. Maybe the closer I am with them, the easier I will argue with them. Maybe I want to make sure I understand what they think, and vice versa.

This, however, bears some risks.... Maybe some days they really understand what I think, and they are sure I am a totally different person from what they expect, they will leave me.