I understand that she has been treated unfairly. I wanted to comfort her actually. If she didn't blame me for not listening to her, I would have listened to her more patiently. Though I was in the same place as her, and I was quite close to her lastnight, I got my "work" to do. 如果你連那個你想獲得他的同情既人都怨埋,咁那個人想同情你都好難.

Also, if 那人 really wanna coach them, just let him do it. Afterall, it is not a matter of live and death. Just experience this situation here, and imagine how you would handle this situation. And if you encounter such things in your work (which is really a matter fo live and death), then just follow what you thought before.