Dancing all night as we watched Beyond's concert lastnight!

One point worthwhile to note in the coaches meeting yesterday is that we are not only teaching our crews to row, but also we are teaching them how to be a good person!

I wanna talk as least as possible with her about the matter of rowing team. I just wanna preserve the most basic elements in our communications and interactions as in other couples. Though rowing is our common interest, when it comes to team management matters, I may be easily mix the argument into our daily communications.

I hope we can treat it as the problem we face individually, taking the other side as the target to talk about the worry, but not the target to claim any solution to the problems.

Thinking and thinking, it IS my mistake.
As Robin, said we still got much more to learn in getting along with your loved one.

Think about if we take ourselves as the correct role when talking in different situations.

I think when I talk to her sometimes, she cannot follow the logic of what I am talking about, or she cannot understand what I am talking about. Maybe it's my problem, or maybe it's her problem. But anyway, it makes me not enjoying talking to her.

This is what I heard from her lastnight: Afterall, I 'm working now, so I cannot always wear sports shoes.

No matter it is the result after she listened to my opinion or not, I appreciate this! And if it's really the case, thank you for accepting my opinion!

Btw, if she really like to listen to me playing piano, I am pleased to do so!

The weather is so nice this afternoon. So I had a walk in the Kowloon Park after lunch. It 's the greenland in the city. I enjoyed walking there ( seems like being an old man....) What's more, I hope she is here also, so that I can hold her hand and talk together. Then I have no regret in my life (at that moment)!

Sometimes I think I wanna enjoy the life like an old man, but sometimes I wanna be fierce in the competitive environment.

Maybe due to unhygiene food on Thursday night, or I got some little bit sick, I finally got ill on Friday. Having been laying on the bed for the whole saturday, I felt a bit strengthless on Sunday morning. But since the rowing team was having training in the morning, I felt responsible to have a look. Therefore, I went to Fo Tan to have a look at last.

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Questions that I ask myself (nearly) everyday (Not in order):
1. Do I watch closely of what happened around the world?
2. Do I watch closely of what happened in Hong Kong?
3. Do I watch closely of what happened in Asia?
4. Do I watch closely of what related to my job?
5. Do I watch closely of what related to my career?
6. Am I going along the right way for my life and career?
7. Do I go along well with people I care, and concern?
8. Do I live up to my own standard, expectation?

What a great start of 2005!

On 31, we went to Tai Mo Shan to see the first sun rise of 2005! The temperature was at -1.7 degree at the highest place in HK! It was great to be there, cos we could see anywhere of HK from there.

Then after getting down the hill, we went straight to Repulse Bay to join the new year day swimming. The temperature, though, was 8 degree there, we felt much warmer than before, so I was eager to swim.

After swimming, I felt I accomplished the first two targets of this year, to get up to the highest mountain, and to swim on the coolest 1 st of Jan ever in 43 years. Then I was relieved and had a tea lunch with the swimming team.